Here it is.
http://www.cepstral.com/cgi-bin/downloads?type=1124808311Because they have demo versions for all voices, i suggest you don't buy until you have installed and tried.
As for the ATC interaction not happening, here are a few tips.
Make sure you assign, and use the same joystick button when transmitting.
When you press the joystick button, you should hear a brief radio noise, that's an indication that you are pressing the right button. You should not talk before hearing the noise, and must hold the button down throughout your transmission. And only release when done.
Of course you can accomplish the above with the keyboard.
There are some ATC strings for which there is no need to press a joystick button, and they are those surrounded by square brackets. "[ 3 - Turn On Progressive Taxi]" is one of them.
Because in this case, you are not transmitting anything to ATC, you just read the string, and it will be selected.
Cheers,